“Excellence in our sons begins with purpose in our parenting.”

J. Christopher Trice

Meet Author...

J. Christopher Trice

J. Christopher Trice, known as Chris to many, is the author of Raising Them Boys: A Parenting Guide: Taking African American Males from Surviving to Excellence. A proud father and mentor, he draws deeply from his personal journey raising two sons and the lessons learned along the way. His experiences inspired him to provide parents—especially fathers—with guidance to raise strong, confident, and purpose-driven boys.

Published in 2024 by Curry Brothers Publishing, his debut book has been recognized as a timely and essential resource for African American families. Trice’s message is clear: strong boys build strong families, and strong families create thriving communities. By blending practical advice with lived experience, he offers a roadmap for parents who want their sons to move beyond survival and achieve excellence in every area of life.

Beyond his writing, Trice is committed to mentoring young men and encouraging fathers to take an active, hands-on role in their children’s growth. A Tennessee native and hardworking professional, he understands the values of discipline, accountability, and perseverance. His work continues to inspire families to see the extraordinary potential in their sons and to nurture them into future leaders for their homes, churches, and communities.

Raising Them Boys

At just $14.99, Raising Them Boys is priced to ensure every parent, mentor, and caregiver can put these powerful tools into practice. For less than the cost of a single night out, you’ll gain timeless parenting wisdom, faith-based strategies, and practical guidance that can help shape your son’s future. This isn’t just a book—it’s an investment in stronger boys, stronger families, and stronger communities. Order your copy today and take the first step toward raising boys who rise from survival to excellence.

About the book...

Raising Them Boys by J. Christopher Trice is a powerful guide for parents navigating the unique challenges of raising African American sons in today’s world. Drawing from his own journey as a devoted father of two successful young men, Trice offers practical wisdom rooted in Christian principles, equipping parents with the tools to nurture discipline, confidence, resilience, and faith. More than a parenting manual, this book is a blueprint for building stronger families, churches, and communities—an essential resource for every parent, and especially for African American families seeking to raise boys who rise above obstacles and step into excellence.

Top 10 Key Points from

“Raising Them Boys:

A Parenting Guide: Taking African-American Males From Surviving to Excellence"

The book opens with a reality check highlighting the systemic challenges faced by African American males (AAMs), including high incarceration rates, educational underachievement, and economic disparities. I stress that these facts are not just numbers, they are a call to action.

Alarming Statistics for Black Males

A consistent theme throughout the book is that fathers must be present. Time-out fathers—those who are absent, inconsistent, or uninvolved—are detrimental. Presence is defined not just by physical availability, but by emotional and spiritual engagement.

The Power of Parental Presence

Parents, especially fathers, must reflect on their own identity and character. Children, especially boys, mirror what they see. If fathers don't know who they are or take accountability, they can't effectively guide their sons.

Know Thyself to Lead Others

I challenge the idea of “saving the community” without first saving the family. Each man should take responsibility for his own household, and strong families collectively make strong communities.

Communities Begin with Families

Words matter deeply. Empty promises, harsh language, and contradictions between what a father says and what he does damage a child’s trust. Clear, consistent, and loving communication is essential.

Avoid Conflicting Words

Overprotection or misplaced love can cripple a child’s development. Fathers must protect their children while also preparing them for independence, transitioning from protector to coach as children mature.

Balance Love with Discipline

Controlling parenting (without explanation, empathy, or wisdom) leads to rebellion and emotional distance. Instead, the book advocates directing children with respect and understanding.

Reject Control Addict Behavior

Sacrifices are required. Personal stories are shared about giving up jobs and desires to better support children, emphasizing that no success is worth the cost of a disconnected family.

Fathers Must Prioritize Family Over Ambition

Fathers should see themselves as builders of a legacy. They are urged to teach their sons life skills, share personal experiences, including mistakes—and provide moral and spiritual guidance.

Intentional Teaching and Legacy

The book closes chapters with challenges to the reader—urging men to stop blaming external circumstances and instead take initiative. Change begins at an individual level and requires courage, accountability, and love.

Action Starts with “I”